Break homework into 15–20-minute chunks with movement breaks, use one clear instruction at a time and a set time and place, and praise effort — and if it's still a battle, ask the school to adjust the amount set.
First: make tonight's task smaller
Pick one small piece of homework and set a timer for 15 to 20 minutes. Tell your child exactly what to do first, such as “write the date” or “answer question one”. When the timer ends, stop for a short movement break. The NHS recommends this pattern for homework, along with simple instructions given one at a time and praise for what your child does well (NHS ADHD advice).
Agree the finish point before starting. “Two chunks, then we stop” is easier to face than an open-ended instruction to finish everything. Praise starting, returning after a break and trying a hard question. Do not make completion the only success.
Then: take distractions out of the room
Use the same workable time and place each day, but do not insist on a silent desk if your child focuses better standing, moving or wearing headphones. Put phones and unrelated screens away. Keep a short written checklist where your child can see it, with only the steps needed now.
- Get the book, pencil and drink ready before the timer starts.
- Show one or two tasks on the checklist, not the whole evening.
- Use a movement break between chunks, not as a reward for finishing.
- Stop if tears, panic or overload are building.
NICE calls changes like shorter periods of focus, movement breaks, written instructions and reduced noise environmental modifications. Its ADHD guideline says these should be put in place and reviewed; for children aged five and over, medication is offered when symptoms still cause persistent significant impairment after those changes have been tried (NICE guideline NG87).
If it is still a battle, change the homework
Email the class teacher and the SENCO (the teacher responsible for special educational needs). Ask them to agree a reduced amount, a different format, or a later deadline through SEN Support. You could write: “Homework is taking [time] and ending in [tears, refusal or overload]. Please can we agree a smaller or different task and review it in four weeks?”
Your child does not need a diagnosis to receive SEN Support. In England, schools use an assess, plan, do, review cycle when a child needs extra or different help. Mainstream schools must use their best endeavours to secure the special educational provision a child's needs call for (Children and Families Act 2014, section 66). Ask for the homework adjustment to be written into the SEN Support plan, with a date to review whether it worked.
If you want more background on why starting and organising work can be hard, read how ADHD affects learning.
Where the law comes from
- NHS: Living with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), reviewed March 2025
- NICE guideline NG87: Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder: diagnosis and management
- Children and Families Act 2014, section 66: schools' best endeavours duty
- Department for Education: SEND Code of Practice, chapter 6
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